You must have a prayer life and communicate with God. You must have a relationship with God. Have you pre-qualify your decision vision to pursue your desire Timing validates desire. If you have the right desire at the wrong time you can mess your life up. A desire pursued at the wrong time, sets a match to whatever was built before the pursuit. Prequalify your desires. Have you done what is necessary to get it. Prequalify your desires. Is this biblical. What has God said about it in his word. Your identify lies in the word of God Who God says you can have and who you are. Does it to qualify with my purpose in life. “When cravings call”