Lord I do not understand the meaning in one breath You say speek the truth in love and in the next it says rebuke or discipline and than no strife or quarreling. When I do rebuke there is strife I don't know how to parent him. He is being foolish right now and I do not know how to respond it hurts so deeply to have him act out so harshly and be such a fool. I can I can pray is that he turns his eyes upon You. That he seeks Your face and turns away from the world.